Ladies and Gentlemen,
Sadly, today is one of those days :
Was at work until 3 a.m.
Didn't fall asleep until almost four
Haven't washed my hair in 3 days (not cute)
Convinced I was going to stay in bed all day
oily face
feeling yucky
feeling weepy
all I wanted was my heat pad and a sleeve of coconut dreams
So I finally roll out of bed around 4 p.m. (not a good day) because I really have to go to the store and buy some necessities. I felt gross, probably smelled, but I knew it was going to be a fast run so I through on some clothes, a hat for my hair, and a scarf to distract from scary look.
As I am walking down an aisle and contemplating which product to by, this lady stops in the isle and tells me
"I just want to tell you that you look beautiful. I love the look you have and I wish I could pull it off"
At first I said nothing, partially because I was so stunned, and partially because I thought she was joking. But then as I was processing she continued,
"I really think you look great and I just thought you should know it."
I literally almost cried.
I told her I was so grateful she had told me that and how icky I had been feeling that day. She said that she always tried not to suppress compliments when she thinks them. The woman was just a tender mercy. As her and her daughter started to walk away and I turned with a huge grin on my face back to my product choosing, she once again turned and said
"Ya! My daughter is right, you are just rocking the 'I'm a movie star who is trying to go to the grocery store like a normal person', look!".
Again I expressed my gratitude for such an awesome compliment.
As I continued through my trip around the store, I felt like I was on cloud nine. I had felt so icky and gross all day and in a matter of a minute a complete stranger made me feel beautiful and capable again.
Now I didn't want to blog about this story today because I wanted you guys to know that an amazing stranger made me feel much better about myself today. I'm blogging about it because I want you all to consider the difference you can make in a complete strangers life. That woman could have thought her compliment, but kept it to herself, but instead she was bold and shared her kind thoughts which was really exactly what I needed to hear.
Sometimes people have bad days and they really need to hear that they look good, so with all the bad, sad and maddening things going on in the world, why not try to make it a little brighter for those around us-
-even (and maybe especially) if they are complete strangers